Posted on April 18, 2025, by WSC in Blog, Getting Started for Surrogates
A Clear Guide for Women Who Are Curious About Surrogacy
Becoming a surrogate is a beautiful way to help others build a family. But not everyone is eligible — and that’s for good reason. The health of the surrogate and the baby always comes first. If you’re wondering whether you’d qualify, here’s a breakdown of what might disqualify you — clearly explained, without judgment.
What Might Disqualify You from Surrogacy?
You’ve Never Had a Baby Before
You must have given birth at least once, with no major complications. This helps ensure you understand what pregnancy involves — physically and emotionally.
You Had Serious Pregnancy Complications
If you’ve experienced any of the following, you may not be eligible:
- Preeclampsia
- Uncontrolled gestational diabetes
- Preterm labor requiring hospitalization
- Placenta previa or abruption
- Severe postpartum hemorrhage
- DVT (blood clots)
These conditions can create risks in future pregnancies.
Too Many Past Deliveries or C-Sections
More than 5 previous births or 2–3 C-sections may disqualify you due to higher risk.
You’ve Had Preterm Deliveries
If you gave birth before 37 weeks in a singleton pregnancy, you may be disqualified — unless it was a twin pregnancy, where anything after 34 weeks might be acceptable.
High BMI
Most clinics follow ASRM guidelines and require a BMI of 30 or lower. A higher BMI can affect fertility medications and pregnancy outcomes.
Certain Mental Health Conditions
If you have a history of severe anxiety, depression, or other psychiatric conditions (especially if you’ve been on long-term medication), you may not pass the psychological screening. Temporary postpartum depression may be accepted in some cases.
You Smoke or Use Drugs
Current smokers or anyone with a history of drug use during pregnancy are not eligible. You will be tested during screening and randomly throughout your journey.
You Have Certain Reproductive Health Issues
Conditions like PCOS, uterine fibroids, or endometriosis may disqualify you, depending on severity and your OB history.
You’re Not a U.S. Citizen or Permanent Resident
Due to legal and immigration requirements, you must be a U.S. citizen or hold a Green Card.
You Have a Criminal Record
Felony convictions (for you or your partner) are disqualifying. Misdemeanors may be accepted on a case-by-case basis.
You Rely Fully on Government Assistance
Receiving public assistance is not always disqualifying, but relying entirely on it may raise concerns. Agencies want to ensure financial motivations don’t compromise decision-making.
You Gave False or Incomplete Information
Honesty is essential. Leaving out medical, mental health, or legal history may result in immediate disqualification.
Not Sure If You Qualify?
Reach out to us and ask! We’re happy to talk through your individual situation. Even if you’re not quite ready now, we’re here to support you and answer any questions you may have.
Becoming a surrogate is one of the most generous things you can do — and we’re here to help you every step of the way.
Interested in Becoming a Surrogate with Wonder Surrogacy?
Please complete our Surrogate Application Form, or email us at info@wondersurro.com, or give us a call at (949) 537-1467.
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